May : Prothom Sampadakiyo - Shraddha

Gotokal (30th May2007)ami "PROBASHE BANGLAR BODHU"community create korechhi,ar aj 31st May community-r shodoshyo shongkhya 22.

Prothomei shobaike janai shusswagatam :)

Koyekta kotha boli shokolke.....
1.amra shobai ekhane bondhu,tai Apni agye baad.
2.amra shudhui Bangla bhashae golpo korbo
3.Jekono shomoshya,jodi share korte chai nijer naam gopon rekhe okopote ta janate pari onnyo bondhuder.
4.jodi konorokom apottimuluk alochona hoy,tobe moderator shei bondhutike warning diye ban korte parben.

Ebar boli shobcheye guruttopurno kothati.tomra shobai lekho.Ja prane chae tai lekho,golpo koro,experience share koro,gaan,abrityi-shob cholbe.bondhuder bolo amader shange golpo korte.

Abaro shobaike anek dhonnyobad community join korar jonnyo :)

June : Tomar Shoishob - Paramita

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Shraddha

satti jokhon choto chilam mone hoto kobe boro hobo?? r ekhon purono din gulo r kotha vabi na, emon kom din ee jay...

amar thakurda thakurma chilen na, amar baba ra jokhon khuub choto,onara 2jon e mara jan,amar saishab jure achen amar dadu,nanu(dida)...amar ma chakri korten,chotobela theke Nanu amay boro korechilen..mamabarite 3mamar kache amar ador chilo sobcheyy besi..ami sobai k boltam''nanu r 1ta posha pakhi ache,tar naam Khusi..''..Nanu r amar mejo mama amay ''Khusi''bole dakten..amar mamato bhai bonder aj o ami ''mamato'' mone kori na..dadu r sobcheye priyo sontan holo amar ma,r tai dadu r valobasa ta o khuub peyechi..nanur sathe amar jogra hoto prochur..kintu kothay abar 1ta taan chilo prochondo....

ebar 1ta mojar kotha boli...class 1 ye halfyearly exam e ami 20th rank korechilam, shaonli bole 1jon 1st hoyechilo..ami result peye beriye ese khuub hese hese ma k bolechilam ''ami 20 peyechi....r janoto shaonli matro 1''' mar obosthaya ta kemon hoyechilo ekhon vable hasi pay....

ami hate paye khuub duronto na hole o ektu dustu prokitir chilam...tobe golpo sunte daruuun valobastam..baba aj o amar hazar ta golper boi agle rekhe diyeche...baba r sathe roj bazar jete chaitam...r 1ta jinish pagoler moto valobastam ta holo putul khela..amar prochur putul, o khelna bati chilo...

ektu boro hoyar por ma ama k niye vugeche karon ami khub 1ta porte chaitam na r prochuur kotha boltam...kotha bolar jonyo amar j sara bochore kotobar jayga change hoto bolar noy.

arekta kotha chotobela theke ee biye r songsar ei 2to niye ami khuuub utsahi chilam..ma babar ek sontan hoyar subade onara amar sob icchha jothasomvob puron korechen..tobu oder oneeeek jaliyechi...ekhon ma majhe majhe khuub hese hese bole..''''r to besidin noy..oppeekkha korchi..jerokom amake jaliyecho...tar return pabe eibaar..'''chotobela sesh hote hote amader aro ekta jinish komte thake.. amar Nanu r amay KHUSI bole daken na, Dadu r SunnyBabu bolen na, boromama sobar samne ''bhagni'' bolte lajja pay,baba o 'buri' bole na..

July : Bangalir Boishishto - Soma

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Shraddha

bangali boltei gelei prothome je kotha ta ase ta holo je MACH ER JHOL AR BHAT ER JONYO pran chotphot korte hobe...........sob kichu na kheyeo thaka jabe kintu bhat du bela du mutho atleast chai e chai...tobe ajkal ar lokjon serom noi........ar bhat kheye ektu misti ekta amude ghum ar bangali der moto home-sickness ar mone hoi desh e onek kom loker e ache......ar mayer hath er sundor ranna ar khaoar somoy ma er pase bose thaka ba jotodin paro ma tumi amake khaiye jao....

ma der chele meyeder ektu jeno kothao besi araal kore adore diye lulu putu kore manush kora......... jotodin pare chatar moto rod jhar jol bristi thke atkiye rakhe parle to joboner sesh din ta obdi cheler meyer jonyo kore jai...ar ha tension er raja.... joto tension mone hoi aei bangalider e ache..........ar norom moner hoi bangalira ja ar onyo der modhdhe trace kora khub e kostokor........

khub ROSOGOLLA khete bhalo base ba misti khete bhalobase bole mukh diye misti misti kotha bole bangalira afterall bangla vasa tai khub misti ar sundor............bangali ra budhdhiman o hoye thake tobe sobsomoy kaje lagaina............tobe sobai bole je bangalira na ki ektu swarthapor type er hoi....hoi ki janina? koi amito bangali kintu ami to swarthpor noi... esob gun gulo thaklei mone hoi tare bangali koua jay....

janina koto ta thik ba koto ta bhul likhlam ...tobe amar ja mone hoi ami nije bangali bole majhe modhdhei je jinis gulo khub feel kori segulo diyei likhlam.... tobe ha!!!akhon globalisation er time tai onek kichui ar ager moto nei tai akhono je bangali manei bhat ar macher jhol ba bhat er por ghum chi e chai setao kono kotha noi..tobe bangali der ektu oi jinis gulor proti tan thake..ar durgapuja.... sarabochor amra to oi ekta utsob er dikei ha kore chatak r moto takiye thaki... notun jama kapor pori tate bochor e jotobar e notun poshak kini na keno pujor somoy na kinle thik mana jaina.. ekhaneo bangalider ekta boro boisishto lukiye ache.

August : Joint Family vs. Nuclear Family - Piu

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Jhum

ekta katha khub sotyi, arthik soccholota-r karone joutho poribaare thakatao ekta onyotomo karon, tachara agekaar din-e joutho poribaare sudhumatro amar chele ba amar meye ei jinishta khabe..ei kotha bhebe to kichu ana hoto na....tai sekhane bacchake khub dami kichu je baba-ma ene diten ta noy..sekhane ja hoto sobtai group-e hoto...tachara arekta byaparo chilo jano, boro dada ba didi-r jama-kapor, khelna, dolna sei barir choto choto chele-meyera byabohar korto jano..ta niye kintu mayeder moneo konorokom complex kaaj korto na je amar bacchatake purono jama-ta porte dilo..jotodin jama-ta bhalo ache aar barite choto chele-meye ache..tara sobai notuner sathei soman anondei sei purono jama ba khelna peyei khushi hoto.

kintu chitro-ta aajkaal-kar dine bodle gyache ekkebare...ajkaal chele-meyeder thekeo tader mayerai beshi socheton, kauke khub close cousins-der modhyeo ei offer-ta dite bhadho badho laage, pache kichu mind kore bose.....ami nijei amar jathtuto, pistuto, mamato didider jama chotobelay porechi, amartao poreche onyo cousins-ra kintu seto bohu bochor agekaar byapar.........

chotobelay bordhomaane ami joutho poribaar-e onekta somoyi katiyechi..porobortikaal-e baba-ma dujonei chakri-sutre kolkatay chole ashte badhyo hon...chotobelar darun kichu smrtiti ami tomader satheo share korte chai......dupur belay amar thamma ekta boro kasar thalay bhaat makhten..aar amra bhai-bonera taar charpashe gol hoye bostam, thamma-r haate bhaat makhar swad-tai alada chilo...thamma sokoler mukhe ek grash kore bhore dito....ohhh..ki khushi sob....aar chutir diner dupurbelay sobai gol hoye boshto paner bata niye.....amader barite sobai abar tash khelte khub bhalobashe...kichkkhon golpo hasi hober porei tasher adda boshto, ashe pasher bari thekeo kichu jethima-kakimara ashten..sobai mile darun adda hoto.....ei chobi aajkaal aar dekha jayna..tobe etao thik aajkaal somoy sobari kom, aaj chutir dineo bacchar coaching, baba-mayeder outing thake..

tobe ghotonachokre ami biyer por abar joutho poribaar-e eshe pori..sekhane amar barite 11jon loke amra eksathe thaktam..amar sosur moshaira 6 bhai, taar modhye 3 bhai, mane amar 2kaka-sosur, 2 kaki-sasuri aar 2 deor, sathe birashi bochorer didi sasuri..eto lok amra eksathe thaktam..biswas koro eto anonder bari aar ajker dineo eto milmish dekha jayna..ami sei barir prothom bou hoye jai 2001 saal-e, amar ekta sohojato khomota ache..ami bhishon loker sathe sohojei mishte pari, pran khule haste pari, tai oneke amay bhoy dekhaleo je ami sobar sathe adjust korte parbo kina..ami kichuta confident-i chilam je...oboshoi parbo...aar jano pereochi...sobar je eki bhabe mon jogate perechi ta bolle bariye bola hobe ..karon eki sonsar-e keu protyeker priyo hote parena..sonsar-e sobaike khushi kora jayna..tobe sobar sathe thakar je ki moja ta ami jani, aar get together holei baki 3 kaka-sosurerao eshe jog dan..sob miliye 21 jon member..bairer lok-ke aar dorkari hoyna.....tobe eta ekdom sotyi kotha.....kichu chapa hingshe/maan obhimaan egulo kintu joutho poribaar-eo thake..amader ei poribareo ache..kintu seta kokhonoi ei porjaye jaini je alada bhabe keu bari chere beriye jabe...e prosonge ekta choto ghotona boli..amar didi sasuri-r 82 bochor boyosh hoyechilo, uni osustho howay onake Ruby hsptl-e admit kora hoy..2 mash bhorti chilen..taar por marao jaan..kintu onar jonyo je porimaan taka khorcha hoyeche(pray 4 lakh) aar je porimaan jotno uni peyechen poribaar-er protyeker kach theke(including ami..naat-bou)tate Dr. porjonto obaak hoye bolechilen amar sosur moshai-ke deke je "poysa hoyto onekeri ache, kintu ajker dine ei boyoshi bridhar jonyo eto-ta korte khub kom manush kei dekha jay" karon onekei dhore nay, ja boyosh taar jonyo aar eto kore ki labh... othocho mojar byaparta holo..ami ebong amar bor dujonei amra ekmatro sontaan.

September : Sekal-Ekal - Parbati o Suparna

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Jhum


Parbati : ekta kotha amar mone hoy ekal hok ar sekal hok manasikotar opor depend kore. anek e sekal eo khub modern chilen ar aneke ekal eo oldie .. charulata y mone ache amol dakchilo 'nabina' ar 'prachina' bole dui boudi ke ?

tobe din bodlate i thake with time , techonolgy. jemon ajkal chithi lekhar chol uthei geche .. athocho even 10 years back i remember jokhon college theke sodyo beriyechi tokhon sab bondhura bondhuder chithi likhtam . ami software field a achi even then office e internet eto easily accessible chilona . ba amar thakleo not all my friends had that. ar ekhon ? majhe majhe mone hoy we are too used to live in virtual world. amar ek khub close bondhur sathe 4 yr por meet korlam but we didnot find anything exciting. mone holo its like email/chat /fone only.. khub scary legeche... asole proti din er update i payi dujone dujonar tahole dekha hobar r dorkar ta ki !!

janina aro koto change dekhbo but change na thakleo life would be boring.

Suparna : amio kichhu balar lobh samlate parlam na.....Ashapurna Debi'r lekha ... " Pratham Pratishruti"...."Subarna Lata"... "Bakul katha" ... ....ei tinte uponyas jara poroni tara pore nao plz.... porlei "sekal-ekal" er uttor pabe sabai ......

ebare amar kichhu personal matamot....sekale tension anek kom chhilo....ekale 10 years old akti bachchar-o high blood pressure dekha jay kakhono kakhono...."private life" katha niye amra baddo beshi matha ghamai....ektu kheyal korlei dekha jay je amra kintu oi golper asor bhishan bhabe miss kori ....ar ki bhishan miss kori tar praman ei orkut....ekhane bandhu der scrap book e jodi aktu chokh bulano jay tahole dekha jabe je amra pray-i oi ma masi der motoi golpo kore thaki......"aj ki kheli??....ki ranna holo??....bor er upor rag keno??....chhele keman achhe??....shashurir kathay beshi kan dis na.....etc etc...."…… golper bishay bastu kintu paltay ni kichhui...sekal ekal er chinta dharay teman bishal kichhu pharak nojore pore ki??... chokhe porar moto jatotuku achhe setao khub beshi kichhu noy.....ta sekaleo chhilo.....sekale jodi Ashapurna debi thaken to ekale Jhmpa Lahiri achhen.....amar mone hoy change jeta hoyechhe seta holo madhyam……...amra ekhane kato private golpo kori....sakoler khonj rakhi....kintu pasher barir lokti tin din more pore thakleo jante parina...this is high tec. life!....sabai busy!...

but bhalo dik ki nei??.....achhe!...... great communication! atotai change hoyechhe je ak maser bhetorei life change kore dite pare manuser....

October : Anya Pujor Golpo - Sharmila o Devalina

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Moumita

Devalina : Moumita, Tomar topic ta ami khub bhalo bashi. Nijera anando korte giye bhule jai je baritey jara kaaj korey, jara civic duties korey, jara gorib, tader pujo te ki bhabe ektu anando korbar kichhu karon ditey pari.

Pujor bakshish to royeichhe. Ta chhara ektu sadbhab ektu sneho e shob i pari ditey.

Parae keu achhe je buro/buri jara ghor theke berote paaren na? Tader giye ektu dekhe aasha. Keu emon aachhe, ashushtho, jaar nije uthhe khabar banabar khomota nei, tar jonnye alpo kichhu niye jaoa. Kono family jaar aay korar khomota haariyechhe, tader jonnyo kichhu alpo taka, ekta khame bhorti korey. Keu depressed, taar sanghe telephone tuley duti katha bola. (Ba ekta e mail pathhano!) E rokom anek kichhui pari.

Sharmila : ami jokhon baroday thaktam, pujor shomoy kajer lokeder bonus, jamakapor deowa chharao ar ekjonke ditam. bolte paro ke? she chhhilo ekjon hijra, pujoy ar dol e eshe amar shathe khanik golpo kore shari ba gaye deowar shaal niye jeto, taar shathe kichhu taka. amake er jonyo onekei thatta korechhen kintu amar khali ekta kothai kebol mone hoto, eder keu pochhondo kore na, bhoy pay, kintu keno? erao to manush. bishwash koro, ini amar shathe du dondo kotha bole ki khushi i na hoten. eituku khushi ki eder prapyo noy?

Devalina : Sharmila, Thik bolechho. Ektu digress korchhi, kintu ekta incident er bishoy du tin te line likhbo bhablam. Kolkata theke Delhi train e AC IInd class sleeper e ekbar travel korchhilam. Ekjon hijra o sahojatri holen. Takey train e tuley ditey taar mosto boro dol eshe, takey seat e boshiye, jol, khabar, cha e shob diye ayojon kore choley gelo.Onake dekhe shobai compartment e kemon jani bhoy pelo. Keu jeno or dike kholakhuli takabe na, kintu teriye dekhchhe. Uni o chup chap janalar baire takiye achhen, jodio tokhon besh andhakar. Bujhlam shobai jemon onake bhoy pachhe, uni tar cheye shobai ke beshi bhoy pachhen. Khub vulnerable aar defenceless dekhlam. Golpo to kori ni, kintu amake bol'len, bathroome jaben, onar jinish patro ektu khyal rakhte. Ami dwidha na kore raji hoa te khushi holen. Tar por, dhire dhire ek aadh ta katha bol'len. Onno sahajatri ra o katha bolte aarambho korle. Onar omayik aar shobhyo byabahar dekhe shobai besh relaxed holey. Delhi pounchhabar shomoy monay holo, shobai ekta boro shikkha peye roilo.

Sharmila : Devalina, tumi jodio "digress" korchhi likhechho, amar mone holo,tomar lekhateo ei "onyo pujor " gondho nishchit rupe pelam. amra jokhon kauke shomman di ba ektu bhalobasha janai, sheTa ki shomoy bibechona kore kori? pujor shomoy na kore onyo shomoy korleo, er modhyei mayer ashirbad ar ma ke shraddha dekhano dutoi thake.

November : Chithi - Saheli

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Sudipta

ami likhte bhalobasi...se jrakam i hok...kintu chithi lekhate amar bishes agraha achhe karon sekahan theke uttar paoar asha thake :)

bandhuder sathe ragaragi hoye jakhan ari hoto takhan chithi marfat barta jeto - 'dear abcd,ami amuk amuk karone khub kasta peyechhi. ebare bhab korar ichchhe hole bolis...' 25th dec te kato chocolate cheye santa ke chithi likhtam... boro hoye dure thaka attiyoder likhtam.... keu uttar dite gafiloti korle dekha hole abhimano dekhatam... emon byapar holo j seshe bandhabira tader prem patra kemon kore likhbe setar o ekta khasrha banatam(karon takhan amar chithi pathanor loktar sathe alap hoini).

ekbar mone achhe ek bandhabi lukie chithi lekhar samaye amar kachhe dhora pore jai...seta chhilo tar pratham prempattar ....tai tar abasthata.. 'ki likhi tomai?'...er mato...ami take sahajya o korlam ebang dekha gelo oi chhoto sahare tader samparkher katha jatona rotlo tar theke beshi rotlo chithi r katha....uthti bayasi chheleder mukhe se chithir bhashar gunagan...jehetu Madhusudaner mato bokta ami r lekhika anya chhilo sei hetu amar mone holo jeno amar i ekta boi prakashita hoye eto janapriyota labh korlo....ufff seki ananda! tarpore chithi lekhate aneeha elo...karon chithi jai kintu chithi asena...durer attiyora bodle jaoa address er poriborte chirasthayi email id pathate laglo... mafaswale takhan o computer thakleo networking bhalo chhilo na ...fole abhyes ta ekebare kharap hoye gelo....

tobe ekhono amar best friend(orkut e nei) er sathe niyamita email marfat chithi adan pradaner abhyesta bajai rakhar chesta kori... setao bighnita hoi jakhan ghatanachakre dujone ek i sange online hoi... chithir jonye ke apekkha korbe... online dekhlo ki call kore boslo... ebhabe ki chithi r ichchheta r thake? ekhon to amader jibane chithi bolte abedandan patra tukui baki achhe...baki sob information ba abeg i to link er marfat chhobi hoye ase....

December : Amra Jibone Kokhon Fail Kori - Moumita

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Sudipta

Bibhutibhushan Bandopadhyay er ekta lekha porechilam , sekhane lekhok bolechen jibone dukkho byerthota na ele sristi hoye na, jibon ke ordhekh janai baki theke jaye! amaro mone hoy Kobi Rabindra nath Thakur jibone eto byerthotar mukhomukhi hoyechilam bolei eto sundor shahityo rochona korte perechilen. sekale Rabindra nather bhokter cheye sotru sonkhyai beshi chilo naki!!sab sristishil manush i tai kom beshi byerthotar mukhomukhi hoyechilen. Gayok Jagjiit Shing akale tar chele ke hariye gaan chere deben bhebechilen, kintu tini gaaner modhye diyei sei dukkho ke joy korechen. seta tar dorodi golaye dhora pore....!

ekhane ek bondhu likhecho r ekhonkar apato-aramer jibone tar barbar mone pore purulia te se je schoole porato sedingulor katha....! anekei ager jibon chere ashe notun jibone probesh kore. amio tomar motoi ekta school e poratam, r bariteo amar anek chatro chatri chilo, bhishon bhalobasha peyechi koekta bochor oder kache! tobe jiboner sukher smritir bhandare sojotne rekhe diyechi sedingulo! ami jedin sesh school e gechilam amar class er student ra khub kedechilo... ami tadero bolechilam r nijekeo boli...jibon to theme thake na, egiye cholai jiboner ek nam, tai aabar hoyeto kokhono jiboner kono ek pothe sobar sathe dekha hobe, hoyeto ami phire asbo, hoyeto ba na! tobe praye sab mukhgulokei mone rekhechi.chakri chere asha ta ke amar failure bole mone hoy na! asole jibon ta eto boro, eta tari ekta phase matro!ami jani aro koto ki opekkha korche amar jonne , sobar jonnei...!

January : Tomar Priyo Shiter Recipe - Shraddha

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Baishakhi

Shiter recipe? Chole jete hobe Kolkatar fele asha Shitkale.

Norom rode pith bhijiye dupurbela Koyetbel makha ..."tokash tokash" jibhe shobdo.Kingba khub bhalo shugondhi Komlalebu. Koya chhariye chhariye ma diten ar amra thakurmar hathe bona norom uler sweater-r niche nijeder mure, shei kamlalebu khetam. Ei khabardabarer oboshyo kono recipe nei :)

Kintu recipe chhilo, shandhye bewlar Karaishutir kochurir. Kingba poush shangkrantir dine mayer hather tairi patishapta, puli pithe, pulir payesh, notun gurer tairi chaler payesh (eta amar mayer special dish, shitkale prae protidin-i eta uni banaten) malpo-r.

Aro chhilo, shiter chhutir dupure gorom bhate Methi shak, ki shundor tar gondho, kingba bajare notun otha fulkofi diye shol machher jhirer jhol....aaaahh; konodin-o bhulbo na mayer hather ranna shei recipe-r swad.

Shitkaler ranna ar ma...aj du-i missing chiro shiter ei deshe. Jemon hariye gachhe chhelebelar shei fele asha shiter dupurgulo. "Tokash tokash" koyetbel makha, komlalebu ronger sweater pore kamlalebur koya niye didir shange khunshuti. shob-i aj smriti...shukher smriti.

February : Dekhe Shekho - Baishakhi

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Shraddha

kono kaaj cchoto noy...amra bangali ra kolkatay thakle nijer haate kono kaaj korina... jharu dewa babashon maja is so very TABU!!! kintu kono kaaj jodi cchoto na hoy... tahole manush ke kano chhoto kore dekha hoy?

ebar kolkatay giye swa-chokhe byaparta dekhlam...

amader barir macchwala.. bhadrolok tar 2 meyeke masters poriyecche, ek meye MBA korecche ar onnojon MS in Finance... mane bujhtei parccho, bhadroloker chhele HS debar pore babar byabsha dekhchhe... bhadrolok ke amar sashur bari chene karon aajke antoto 50 bocchorer opor holo onar kacch theke macch kena hoy.. ba eki dokan theke...

bhadroloker meye university te pora kaleen ek ccheler preme porlo... chhele ta shab jene sunei meyetake propose korecche... shabkicchui to thik chilo.. kintu jokhon biyer kotha uthlo, tokhon chheler bari theke birat apotti...meyer baba ki kore... se kina bajare macch wala... samaje mukh dekhabe ki kore... ar meye ki kore.. meye holo masters korecche.. univ. topper...

as usual biye bhenge gelo.. meyer baba anek naki bolecchilo je.. biyer pore meyer songe samparka rakhben na.. biye jano na bhange... ke kar kotha sone bolo.

tahole bolo tomra meyetar porashunor ki mane holo tahole, or biye hole hobe oder bastir karo shonge.. je hobe ardho shikkhito, kinba eidharaner kicchu,,,, ekta generation oporer dike jete giyeo abar picchiye porbe... karon tar baba macch wala.. tomader ki dharona??? ki sikhbo ei dekhe amra...

bhadralok ke salute, je ek ek paysa jamiye meyeke poriyecche, ar bhadra loker bhaggo ke karuna... je kina meyer icche puran korte parlo na...

kaaj cchoto hoyna , kintu manush cchoto hoy. macch bikri kora cchoto kaaj noy, kintu macch wala hole cholbena.. hasshokor. aajke amar baba -ma, kinba amra nije ei paristhiti te porle ki korbo?... ki sikhlam amra... amra to eto educated...tao ki ei mitthe status ta bhangte perecchi??

March : Kon Bhumikay Nijeke Dekhte Bhalo Lage - Jhum

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Sukanya

jonmer por theke 1ti meyeke bes onek rokom bhumika palon korte hoi. kokhono se karor sontan kokhono ba karor bon kokhono se karor stri. eivabe jiboner store store ekekrokom bhumikay nari uttirno hoi. kintu sob theke boro je bhumika ekjon nari palon kore seta obossoi ekjon mayer bhumika. prthibir bodhoi sob nari ek bakye eta swikar kore nebe je se mayer bhumikatei sob theke sukhi sob theke tripto. er pechone amar mone hoi 1tai karon. 1jon puruso jonmer por theke kokhono sontan kokhono bhai kokhono swami abar kokhono pitar bhumika palon koren. kintu sontaner pita howa sotteo 1 jon pita kintu konodin mayer theke egiye jete paren na. karon ekmatro 1jon nari pare prosob jontrona sojjho kore sontaner jonmo dite. sei jaigai kintu ekjon purus okkhom. r ekhanei nari odwitiya narir uniqueness ekhanei. tai ekjon narir jibone mayer bhumika sob theke besi guruttopurno.

amio er baire noi. jedin theke matritter swad amar jibone eseche sedin theke nijeke r kono bhumikatei vabte parina. sontaner ador sontaner valobasa chara jibone jeno tarpor theke sob kichui ondhokar bole mone hoi. sontan jodi ektu osustho hoye pore udbigno chokhe tar mukher pane cheye thaki se kotokkhone abar sustho hoye uthbe ei vabnai. sontaner jonmer por theke jibontai jeno amul bodle gelo, nijeke onek besi daittosil hoye jete holo. tai amio r sobaikar moto mayer bhumikatei nijeke dekhte sob theke besi valobasi.

April : Ajker somaje kotota nirapod achi amra meyera? - Shampa

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Shampa

Janina ei bishoye age alochona hoyeche ki na BB te.. karon ami ekhane relatively notun... ajker somaje emni e amra protiniyoto nana rokomer nirapotta hinotay bhugchi.. chhele meye nirbisheshe.. kintu taar oporeo amader meyeder nana rokomer sexual harassment er sommukhin hote hoi...

Poth cholti stranger..dokandar..hotel er beyara..barir chakor..school ba tution er sir.. para r dada ba protibeshir chele..office er collegue..boss..boy friend, swami..emon ki nijer dada ba baba..kaar modhye j kkhon sei poshu jege othe jaar shikaar hote paare 0-90 je kono boyeser meye ba mohila(aj kal to 3/4 maser sishu theke 80urdho mohila kaukei baad deoa hoyna!!).. roj e newspaper e erokom nana ghotona chapa hote thake... abar erokom onek sotti chapar okhore prokash paoar soubhagyo(na durbhagyo seta debatable) paay na!

shuru ta ami e korchi.. ekta sona ghotona share kore.. sona bole golpo bhebo na.. jaar opor diye ghoteche ami nije taar sathe kotha bolechi.. tar nijer mukhe sob sunechi.. tai nichok sona golpo kotha noi...

Ami tokhon calcutta university theke sociology te MA korchi. Part 2te amader ekta field report korte hoy.. sebar amra thik korechilam "liluah home" er inmates der opor report toiri korbo. interest besi amar chilo tai dayiotto o sob amar ghare chilo.. jaihok prochur kathkhor puriye permission jogar kore nirdisto din e home e poucholam. ami jantam amader interview schedule, questionaire sob bhalomoto scrutiny kora hobe, tai sei moto preperation niye gechilam..super er songe kotha bole jokhon raji koralam. amader ekti room deoa holo..ebong home authority beche beche meye pathate laglen.. amar kache prothom j meyeti elo bochor 10-12 boyes hobe-se boba... kichutei communicate korte parchina.. tokhon home er counsellor bhodro mohilar kach theke help nilam.. jante parlam.. meyeti nijer bidhoba ma r mama-mami'r sathe bardhaman er kache kono gram e thakto.. mama bardhaman e ekti barite taake thaka khaoar kaj e dite niye jachilo.. bardhaman station e se somehow hariye jaay.. taar por exactly taar sathe ki hoy seta khanikta rohosyo..clinicl test e rape dhora poreni kintu mollest kora hoyechilo tar proman paoa geche..ghotona jaai ghote thakuk taar impact etotaai besi chilo sei sishu moner opor j meyeti tar kotha bolar shokti haray...

Ei holo amader somaj.. jekhane ekti 10/12 bochorer meye o rehai paay na... amader oi project er interview session j kodin cholechilo.. sei koidin raate sute partam na... chokh bondho korlei chokher samne meyegulir nishpap mukh bheshe uthto r oder kator shor sunte partam.. mone hoto o'r opor diye jeta ghoteche seta jeno amar oporeo ghotche..

ei home gulor condition motei bhalo na.. amra jokhon jai.. ami khub jor diyechilam kitchen dekhar jonno dekhte deoa hoyni... inmates der k tala bondho kore atke rakha hoi... aro ache... manosik bhabe sustho r osustho sob rokom inmates der e kokhono eksatei rekhe deoa hoy... r tachara male staff der pasobokotar shiakar hoy era akchhar..

amader schedule e ekta question chilo j ekhane tomar "ke ke bondhu ache.. bondhu der songe ki ki koro.. " khub e nirbhejal prosno, amar bissas chilo erokom nirbhejal prosner madhyomei amra onek sotti (jeta lokano sokoler kach theke) jante parbo.. to lokhho korhilam j sobar respondent rai ei prosno gulo eriye jachhilo.. dudin erokom ghotona ghotay amar kemon sondeho hoy.. tokhon oder jini counselling koren sei bhodro mohila k jigesh korlam.. r jeta jante parlam seta sune obaak hoye gelam..

ora bondhu kora bolte homo sexuality k bojhe.. tai kauke bondhu bollei se bole ami bondhu korina.. ba o' abar bondhu noi! asole se mean korte chay j se homosexual noy.. ei home gulo te onek somoy e purono (ebong homosexual) inmates der dwarao ekhankar niriho inmates ra sexual abuse er shikaar hoy...

tobe liluah home er ba ei dhoroner home gulo somporke boli.. j okhane j kichu e bhalo hoina taao na... okhane meyeder nana rokomer training o deoa hoy... amra home gulo k dosh dichhi kintu amra somajer socheton nagorik hisebe koto ta SOCHETONOTA dekhai bolte paro?? amra pari ei meyedr amader majhe somajer mul srote firiye ante???? oi home tobu to ora beche achhe... nijeder jogote...

aar ekti meyer kotha boli tomader tahole amar boktobyo ta bujhte subidhe hobe...

ei meyeti k ami jokhon interview korte nei tokhon home oder jini counsellor tini amar o'r puro case history diyechilen.. atke uthechilam sune... meye ti ke jokhon home e ana hoi se chilo manosik bharsamyo hin.. hospital theke ase se.. home e suru suru te se m'ens" er somoy sara gaye menstrual blood mekhe nito... atke uthle??? puro ta sono tahole.. suru theke boli... meyeti bonga line er kono gram e thakto.. tar ma..hain tar nijer ma r tar jamai babu mile taake beche diyechilo delhi te ekti "brothel e" meyetir boyes tokhon 14yrs.. sekhane se eto kanna kati korto j taake samlate na pere r khanikta birokto hoye ebong khanikta doya korei sei brothel er ek masi e take kolkata'r train e tule dey... howrah station e poucheche rate se to bhebe kulkinara pache na kothay jaabe... station theke beriyechilo.. sekhane ekdol cheler haate gang raped hoy bivotsyo bhabe... porer din sokale kono ek bhodrolok doya (ajker juge manobikota ta doya e hoye dariyeche..)kore taake hospitale pouche dey....

meyetir psycho analysis kore dekha gechilo j rape e r oi rokom borborochito otyachar e jehetu taar prochur blood loss hoyechilo tai se even menstrual blood o sorir theke berote dite chaito na.. gaye mekhe bose thakto menstrual blood..

othocho sei meye ti k ami jokhon interview korechi.. se dibyi sochhonde kotha boleche amar songe... nijer poribaarer proti khobh janiyeche.. koto golpo koreche... eta sombhob hoyeche oi home er kichu subho budhhi somponno staff er jotno r sahochorjei... tai sob tai kharap seta bhaba thik na..

ulte nije bhebe jodi dekhi.. amrai hoyto oke ei somaje sadharoner modhye thakle more jete badhyo kortam... o'r nijer ma e ki koreche bolo?? jano o home er super kei ma bole tai.. nijer ma'r kache jeta paini seta okhane peyeche too... kajei bhabte hobe amader... amra koto ta ki korchi.. khali kheye pore r nijer jonne nijer poribar er jonne beche thaka e ki beche thaka?????? tahole manush (maan+"hush") hoye labh ki holo bolo to?

Bidula-r Phire Dekha

sobaikar lekha porte porte amaro khub ichha jaglo kichu likhe pheli.


ami Orkut e dhukechhi onekdin , thik kobe ekhon ar moneo porena. prothom dofai profile create kore kichhudin purano bondhuder phire peye khub anonde chhilam, ekhankar onya onek bondhuder moton school college community chhara ar kono community te jog dite sahos petam na. Amar prothom odekha bondhu Pallabi di (uni BB group eo achhen) , amar school er senior , kintu onake ami motei chintam na. khub sabolil bhabe onar songe bondhutya egie giechhilo. kintu er kichhudiner modhye kajer chap e beshi login korte partam na, ar nanan karone sei profile delete kore di.


ditio dofai jakhon abar Orkut e ashi, takhon edik odik bhalo community dekhbar chesta kortam , kothao sobai mile bhalo kono alochona hochhe kina, ami tate konobhabe jogdan korte pari kina, eibhabei ghurte ghurte ekdin BB r ghor e dhuke porlam. takhono member hoini, nesh alege galo. roji chupi chupi BB te eshe dekhtam ki nie alochona cholchhe, Ja bhabi likhe pheli ta mon die pore pheltam roj. ekdin sahos kore tai abedon janiei dilam. takhon kheal korini owner 'Bhutur Ma' ( ) USA basini. saradine approval elona dekhe bhabte bosechhilam, ami keno portyajya holam...........mon kharap hoe giechhilo. porerdin loginb kortei dekhi amai wellcome kore msg esechhe. ei amar suru............erpor aj poryantya ja ja hoechhe tar sobtai bhalo, kono kichhui kharap noi.


Erpor bondhtya holo Sharmiladi r songe..........mon khusite bhore galo. jar toiri kora thread 'Ja bhabi likhe pheli ' chhilo amar akorshon, tar kachh theke eto sahoje bondhutyaer hat egie asbe bhabini. Bondhutya holo Shraddha r songe, oke khub marjito ar daityapurno mone hoechhilo, ebar sahos kore nijei bariechhilam bondhtyuter hat. tarpor ek ek kore kokhon je eto shoto bondhu hoe galo. kakhon jutlo sukh dukhyer sathi janina. aj okopote swikar kori ekhane aro oneker moton amio bhoi petam DD ke, ki jani ki sangfhatik gombhir ki bhoier manush uni. Kintu bhoi bhengechhilo shraddhar ek kotjai ar bhoita ekebare bhnege galo GT te onak meet kore. Gt e gie ami khub anondo peyechhi ar peyechhi onek sob bhalo bondhu. Soma, Anupa, Rupa, Rimjhimdi - tar modhye kar kotha boli ar kake bad di. ar dekha na hoeo mon joi kore rekhechhe Moumita, Suparna, Jhum , Suchismita, Arpita, Sukanya emon aro oneke. aro oneke achhe jader songe friendship list er friendship na thakleo tader lekha, tader kotha porte besh lage amar, hoito mone mone bondhutyer ichhatao roe gachhe........... BB ke phire dekha jodi bolo, tobe eitai.................


ar asha bolte gele , ki boli...............ekjon bhalo bondhur kachhe manush ja ja asha kore BB r kachhe amar asha thik tai tai. BB amar moner bondhu.

Shuchismita-r Phire Dekha

anek din ager katha... amar abar oto tarikh mone thake na... ranna-banna comm-er sutre Shraddha-r sathe mukh chena chhilo. sundor sundor recipe dito. majhe modhyei se sob ranna kore barite tak lagiye ditam. ekdin sei Shraddha-r theke "Probase Bangali Bodhu" naam e ekti notun comm e jogdaner nimantran elo.


BB blog er prothom sompadakiyo lekhar somoyei janiyechhilam... sudhu bangali bibahito meyeder niye toiri comm dekhe ami ektu bhuru kuchkechhilam ta aaj o swikar kori. kintu khub siggir i dekhlam amar ashonka amulak. Probase Banglar Bodhu meyeder community holeo taar charitro sarbojonin. sudhumatro tathakathito meyeli alochonay ei community nijeke kokhono simabaddho rakhe ni. aaro anek comm achhe.. jekhane hoito regular participation hoy.. kintu lokkho kore dekhechhi.. maximum participation hoy games thread e. Banglar Bodhu sekhaneo ek ujjwal byatikrom. games ekhaneo khela hoy. kintu ta sattweo top 5 list antato 3te thread paoya jabei jekhane games khela chharao ritimoto gurutwapurno bishoye alochona hochchhe.. r sobai sei alochona te angsho nichchhe.


jonmo neyar ek maser modhyei PBB eto jonopriyo ebong meyeder katha bolar emon nirbhorjoya sthan hoye othe je abashyambhabi biporjoyer mukhomukhi hote hoy. se somoye shokto haat e community-r hal dhorechhilen Devalina-di. alada kore kokhono bola hoy ni - kintu aaj ei phire dekhar sujoge DD-ke amar antorik pronam janai. kichhu manush achhen jara nijer ajantei anyader inspire koren. DD sei biral manush-der ekjon.


jai hok.. sokoler subho kamonay biporjoy kate ebong amra probas-ke chhete phele sudhu "Banglar Bodhu" naam e porichito hoi. er poreo tuk-tak jhamela hoito hoyechhe. kintu owner r moderator-der sudakkho porichalonay amader gaye taar aanch lage ni.


goto ek bochore BB eto apon hoye uthechhe je roj orkute ese ekbar ei chandi-mandap e na boste parle bhalo lage na. sokoler sukh dukkher khobor neoya, nijer moner lagam chhere deoyar emon sujog r pai kothay!prothom jonmodine tai anek subhechchha r bhalobasa janai r asha rakhi agami dingulo emoni ujjal hok.

Anupa-r Phire Dekha

Ajj Phire dekhar din...


“Banglar Bodhu” jokhon toiri hoi tokhon ami Kolkata te chilam...Sushmitar mukhe shunechilam Shraddha ekta community toiri koreche kintu Kolkatai jehutu ami net kori na tai July mash obdhi BB r sathe amar kono jogajog chilo na..15th July kolkata theke phire eshe karu r invitation charai ami BB te join kori...prothom din thekei eto bhalo legechilo je orkut khuleii ami BB te ekbar ghure jetam..kintu tokhono khub ekta lekha lekhi shuru kori ni...Suchismita (Jhum) onek thread dito arr mugdho hoye she gulo portam...tarpor hotahth kore ekdin amio likhte boshe gelam...Brishtileena r ekta bhishon proshongsha suchok potro elo amar kache...onek din pore abar kothar dali shajiye lekha shuru korlam..Brishti amar nam dilo “Kothamala”..ki adbhut anubhuti...mone holo eii prithibite aro kichu manush ache jader ekhono amar lekha bhalo lage..jader sathe ami amar moner kone joma thaka anubhuti guloke bhag kore nite pari…eii bhabe shuru holo BB te amar jatra...kromoshyo protiniyoto likhte shuru korlam...amar prothom thread "Bharoter Ramani Saheber Ghoroni "amar jibone sokhyotar ek natun digonto khule dilo..roji onek onek friend request ashte laglo..erpore BB amar rojkar jiboner ango hoye gelo..anonde, dukkhe, hashi te. kannai BB shobshomoikar sathi hoye gelo...

BB r theke onek mansuher sathe alap hoyeche..tader modhye keu keu bhishon apnar hoye geche...Shraddha, Subarna, Sushmita, Kaberi eder sathe amar age alap holeo Moumita, Arpita, Paromita(the terrific trio). Jhum, Sudipta, Devalina di, Sharmila Di, Soma,Bidula, Rupa, Sukanya, Brishtileena, Suchismita eder shobar sathe amar BB r madhyomeii alap..er modhye kichu mashu ke dekhechi, karo karo gola shunechi kintu protibari mone hoyeche era amar onek apnar..onek chena…mone hoyeche bipode apode eder ami kache pabo...

BB amar kache shei “Bhalobashar Mandir” jekhane ami karo bon, karo bondhu,karo ba didi..BB amake natun kore nijeke chinte shikhiyeche..je shob gun gulo morche pore chilo she guloke abar natun kore shanito korar path dekhiyeche...BB amar jiboner shakha prosakhai joriye geche..ami tomake bhlaobashi Banglar Bodhu.

Sudipta-r Phire Dekha

Phire jakhon dekhi..ki paini ami...

Ei community amar kache virtual er world er prothom community karon orkut join karar parallal i ami eta join kori aar tar janno dhonyyobad prappyo Moumita-r.

prothom e ami khub ekta interact korini, kintu jehetu ami khubi extrovert by nature tai besidin chup kore thakte parini sei suru.likhte bhalobasi bole topic post kara o tate contribute kara suru holo....tarpor kakhon kibhabe eker por ek anonya der sathe porichoy holo thik mone nei ..ami bhese gelam virtual duniyay... alape, prolape o sanglape..

Nijer sab lukono ichchegulo jeno dana mele dilo..kobita amar ekanto priyo..abar likhte suru korlam..sotti kore bolte pari school chharar pore eto bandhu ekasathe korte parbo aar kothao bhabini..BB ta dilo..sudhu bondhu noy..genuine friends.

Pore janina amar modhdhye ki dekhe amake shradhdha moderator kore dilo,ami aro anek kache chole elam BB-r.Jioboner ei odhaye anek kichu sikhlam o janlam.janlam bhalobasa dile bhalobasa pawa jay..amar ei pantha bhool noy.Proman pelam eto annoya der bonhu hisebe peye.Anek guni-gyanider songo pelam.Dukhkherdine anek dure dure thaka manusjoner sahochoryo o subhechchay ami dhonnyo holam..

last but not the least..amar karta mosai jini orkut birodhi.tini amader ei dedication,honesty o belief dekhe ekhon nijei ekjon BB_r ekonistho anuragi,tar proman diyechen gato saptahe amake amar prothom BB_r bandhuder sathe dekha koriye..ami jani er cheye boro achivement aar kichu hoy na.

What more can i say..Thank u BB..thanks for everything!!!

Devalina-dir Phire Dekha

Haan, aaj phire dekhbo

Goto bochhor- ek din orkut e dekhte dekhte ei community'r sanghe 'Subhodrishti' holo.

Haashchho?

Shottyi katha- Shei din theke ekta bhishon bhabe joriye porlam ekta adbhut bandhon e. Ta na holey ki sukh aar dukh dui shomoy ek sanghe katano jaay?Dur theke i dekhtam prothom e. Amar ekta praaner kon jani taar e jhonkar dito. Bodhoy shei taar e jeta te dekhtam probashe Bangaliana ebong Bangla meyeder creativity, adaptibility, komol soundarjyo ebong poroshporer sukh dukkher shomoy ek sathe darano.

Shob cheye boro quality jeta anubhab korlam- jeta chhilo ebong ekhono achhe- Bangali meyeder power. Haan amra chaile practically shob i korte paari.Dana mele shonkho chiil hoye ure jaai shob jaaygay.Amader koyek jon er kothin shomoshyae samadhan korte giye amader bold ebong jor golae kawtha bola ta kichhu loker pochhondo hoy ni. Khela bhangar cheshta beshi din lagey ni eder. Amader community ta anek dik theke akromone porlo. Khub koshto diyechhe kichhu lokeder, ei doshyu gon.

Amader o kichhu bhul kora hoyechhilo shei shomoy. Oder boka boki kora ba shikhya ditey jaoa ta'r bodhoy bhul bhabe i kora hoyechhilo. Taate oder akromon baare- ebong ei community- tokhon Probashe Banglar Bodhu- praay delete hoye jaay. Haal dhorey chhilam kichhudin. Shraddha haate tule dilo community'r jimma.Ek din kaaj pherta orkut khuley dekhlam. Khub abak hoyechhilam. Kintu bujhlam je eta korar dorkar hoye chhilo. Kichhu negotiation, kichhu compromise, kichhu bokaboki, aar kichhu 'frank' katha e amra beshi'r bhage beNche gelam- tobe ekta notun rupey- Banglar Bodhu.

Oi naam rakhbar poll ta karur monay achhe??? 9 ta selection er modhye e ta i jitlo.

Nijer personal ichha chhilo 'Ajker Nari'- karon amar monay hoy je amader identity shudhu amader pati deb er karon i hoy na.Kintu community'r shodoshyo der onno rokom monosthir.Tai shey choice manlam

Tobe Banglar Bodhu der community te 'Jara bodhu chhilen' ebong 'jara bodhu hoben' der o swagat kora holo.Bhutur Ma je nirbashon e kator, amar oshojhyo lagto.

Kichhu din er modhye Bhutur Ma ke phire aanbar cheshta sophol holo. Haph chharlam- karon ami je eto ta sposhtobokta- aneke amar ei style ta motei pochhondo korle na.Er modhye ami kichu kichhu member der characters besh bhalo korey chinte parlam.Je kono group e kichhu jon 'rani' na sajle- tader bhishon oshontushti hoy. Shobai tader puja na korle- jeno tader bhaat hojom hoy na. Kichhu na kichhu karon e taara jhamela badhabar taale thake.Tai du tin bar ei rokom jhamela hoye giyechhe.E der ke shobai ekhon chiney gechhe. Tokhon- amar sangh e i lorai chhilo ebong hoyto aneke amake oder mithye kathae bhul bujhe chhile.

Jaak shey shob ekhon Ancient History'r pata e.

Angira aar Arpita shey shomoy Moderator hoye anek kaajer bhar niye chhilo. Oder ke amar thanks. Mou chiro kalei chhilo. Or thaka ta je koto boro bhorsha- sheta ami describe korte parbo na. Or sundar bhabe lekha, monobhab ebong community'r torof interest er tulona hoy na.Nabamita ebong Subarna o moderator hishebe contribute korey gechhe. Tader o acknowledge kori. Ei community te shokoler contribution achhe.

Ei community Shraddha'r sporshe abar jege uthechhe. Din din notun idea, notun dike dekha, notun pothe chola te mon ta anando paay.Amader most recent Moderator der , Saheli ebong Sudipta, bishoy ki bolbo?! Eder ideas, hard work, cheerfulness aar sphurti protyek din jeno community te alo aney.

Banglar Bodhu Blog ta jeno Shib er Jota'r theke Bhagirathi beriye elo. Sundar, duranto, durdanto- chhute cholechhe- nityi notun taale aar kolorob e. Sharmila, Suchismita, Suparna- amader blog er ekdom notun dimension diyechhe. Oder kaaj dekhe abaak hoya chhara onno emotion holo respectful praise. Shob Blog editors ebong assistant editors der applad korbo

Shob cheye boro Applause thakbe Banglar Bodhu'r protyek member der jonnye. It is all about YOU.Member ra i ei community. Member ra i Shob cheye IMPORTANT.

Cholo egiye jaai!

Suparna-B-r Phire Dekha

amar orkut a asa amar bon er jonno.prothom dike jodio aktu aswasti hoto ai open forum er bapar ta te tobu koek jon bondhur dekha pai anek din bade.tader songe golpo kora chara bisesh kono akorshon o chilo na orkut a .aste aste community gulo join korte arombho korlam kintu kothao akta opurnota chilo.kichudin bade hotat Shraddha r thake invitation pelam PBB join korbar.concept ta besh bhalo laglo sudhu meye ra golpo korbo ar banglai kotha bolbo.join korlam 1.6.07 a .ar por besh koek mash kichu personal reason er jonno orkut a asha i hoi ni .ar por jokhon alam PBB ka BB korbar prostab cholcha. sai thake roj nijer soto bastotar majha o akbar kore amar ai priyo sokhir songe dekha na kore gala bhalo lage na.

BB amake anek kichu diacha besh kichu bhalo bondhu(amar chotto friend list a pri sobai e BB r bondhu), jader songe akhono dekha hobar sujog hoi ni tobu kothao jeno akta moner tan anubhob kori, nijer moner moto kore somoy katanor akta nesha,nijer kotha bolbar sujog aro anek kichu. aj BB r 1 year purno holo kamona kori ai bhabai jeno bochorer por bochor BB r jonmodin palon korte pari amra.

Jhum-er Phire Dekha

ekhane amar onek moner kotha lekhar ache kintu somoi hoye uthchilona. ajke tai bose gelam likhte.

goto bochor jokhon kolkata theke doha te esechilam ek nisongo jibon niye ami otistho hoye uthechilam. orkut e 1ta account obossoi chilo kintu school er gota 2-3 jon bondhu chara r kono bondhui chilona tokhon amar. erpor hotat ekdin shraddhar kach theke ami BB join korbar request pai. din ta thik mone korte parina. tobe seta BB toiri hobar 2-1diner moddhei chilo. songe songei join kore feli. tokhono orkut somporke amar kono dharona chilona. nisongota tokhon amake puropuri gras kore felechilo. kintu hotati jeno ami ek notun pother sondhan pelam BB te ese. aschorjo hoye gelam BB jeno amar ekti nesar moto hoye uthlo. sokale ghum theke uthei chute computer khule orkute log in korei chole jetam BB te. likhte borabori khub valobastam. kintu seta prai bondhoi hoye giyechilo porasona ses hoye jabar por. kintu BB jeno amar sei hariye jawa valolagagulo ke abar moner khub kache niye chole elo. roj dekhtam koto notun notun alochona koto notun notun disa. mon khule likhte suru korlam ami. r amar lekha diyei dine dine amar ei BB theke koto je bondhu jibone ese gelo nijeo ta jante parini. ajke ami joto jon bondhu ke peyeche tar jonne ami sompurno rupe BB r kache kritoggo. je ghotonar jonne ami BB ke amar sara jiboneo kokhono vulte parbona tar ullekh na kore parchina. goto koyek mas age ami vison osustho hoye porechilam. ei dur dese ma baba vai bon sobar theke dure amar ei osusthotar somoi amar ei BB r bondhu ra jevabe amake manosik sokti prodan korechen tar jonne ami BB r kache chiro kritoggo. BB r bondhu der subho kamonatei bodhoi ami abar amar savabik jibon fire peyechilam. jokhoni amar jibone manosik oshanti eseche sob somoi BB amake amar moner shantir rosod jugiye geche. tai BB aj ke amar rokter songe mise geche. amar jiboner songe ongaongi vabe BB ajke jorito. kono ekjon bondhu noi ami prai 100 bondhu ei BB theke peyechi. kono ekjoner tai nam korte parlamna. BB tumi aro poripurno hoye otho sudhu ei kamonai kori.

Phire Dekha O Agami Asha : Shraddha

Orkut -r ostittwo jokhon jantaam na, dingulo besh ekgheye katto. Anek katha , anek swapno moner modhhye eka ekai ghure berato. Orkut profile create korar der masher moddhyei tai emon ekta kichhu korar ichhe jaglo, jekhane amar moton jara nijeder swapno, ichhe , kathaguloke tala chabi diye rekhechhe moner modhhye ..tara kichhu bolte pare.

Ekta bhul amar hoye gachhe. Shoto ful bikoshito hok thread-e ami bolechhilam PBB-i chhilo prothom shudhumatro bangali meyeder jonnyo tairi orkut comm. E katha ta thik noe. amader koyekmash agei Bengali Married Women namer ekti community create korechhilen Piuli Mukherjee. Ami jani na Piuli ei post porben kina; Jodi poren..ami khoma prarthee amar ei onichhakrito bhuler jonnyo.

Hoyto aneker mote ork comm-te tarai shomoy den, jader odhel shomoy achhe, kono kaaj kommo nei. Hoyto kichhuta shottyi e katha. Kintu amader moton anekei achhen, jara ghore baire shob kaaj shamleo ei comm-te ba onnyo ork comm-te shomoy den; shudhumatro hridoyer taane.

Ami 1 bochhor age jokhon Banglar Bodhu (Probashe Banglar Bodhu) create korechhilam tokhon shottyi-i bhabte pari ni, je ei ek bochhor pore e bhabe tomra palon korbe Banglar Bodhur prothom jonmodin.

Kritaggyota janabar bhasha nei aj. Tobuo Anupar onurodhe aj abar fire dekhte boshlam ei 1 bochhorke.

Je hare prothom 2 mashe BB-r member barchhilo (credit-ta anektai Moumitar prappyo) hoyto Ishwar chaile aj BB members 1000 kano, 5000 periye jeto. Kintu Ishwar ja koren mongoler jonnyoi.Amader oboyob jai hok na kano...amra aj poroshporer proti je bhalobashar badhone badha hoye gachhi, taar promaan ei community.

Bangalir dhormoi bodhhoe ek theke bibhinno hoye jaoa; tai BB-te poroshporke chena jana abaar nana karone parosporik tiktota ar shomporkogulo tukro tukro hoye jaoa....e shob theke ekti bishesh upokaar hoyechhe; ta holo amra community theke poribaar hoye uthte perechhi.

Aj jodi fire dekhi 1 bochhor age; tahole prothomei jake mone porchhe, she holo Subarba. Tomader prio ei poribarer 2nd member hishebe or kachhe ami chiro kritoggyo thakbo.

Mone ashchhe Nabamita. Ekhon Nabamita khub beshi active noe BB-te , kintu shuruta oi korechhilo. Bondhuder comm-r thikana diye.

Mone porchhe Ranita-ke. Bondhu dorodee, helpful member. Bondhuder bipode barbar jhapiye porechhe Ranita. ar or shorolotar shujog niyechhe bairer dushtu lokera.

Amar lekhar shesh dhape pouchhe gechhi.

Aaj amaar moto anekei achho, jara ei BB utshobe mete thakleo moner modhhye ki jeno ekta chapa koshto boye berachho. Kichhu pete gele kichhu hariye jabei , etai niyom. Shob manush shobar moner moton hoe na. Bhul bojhabujhi, bondhuttwer modhhye fatol, uttapheen bondhuttwo..e shob-i jiboner ongo.

Ekta community (hok she ork comm) ei 1 bochhor dhore porichalona korte korte anek obhiggyota shonchoy korechhi. Bujhechhi as an owner ek-i shange shobaike kushi korar khomota amar kano; prithibir shreshto manager-o nei.

Amra keu ork popularity-r lobhe ei comm-te ashi na. Ashi kichhuta shomoy anande katabar jonnyo. Ami tomader shokoler kachhe kritaggyo. Ei comm theke eto peyechhi, je shottyi-i ei praptir tulona hoe na. Oshonkhyo bondhu, jara aj shukhe dukkhe amar shangee.

Bondhuttwoi banglar Bodhu srishtir mukkhyo uddyeshhyo chhilo. Tar shange srishti shukher ullash jukto hoye ek onnyo matra peyechhe aj. Tomader kachhe onurodh, tomra amake tomader boss bhebo na. Shuruta hoyto ami-i korechhi, kintu ekhon ami ar alada keu noi ei community-r.

"Aami tomader-i lok

aar kichhu noe

ei hok mor porichoy."

Arunima-r Phire Dekha

BB join korar request pathiyechilo Moumita..tar onek age thekei jodio orkut e chilum kintu khub ekta bondhu na thakay regular orkutting kortam na....April mas e ekhane eschi,prothom prothom khub eka lagto,karor sathe banglay kotha bolte partam na....khub kharap lagto....vison boring chilo din gulo...

June mas e BB join korlum....bhebechilum etao bujhi r panch ta community r moto i hobe....tobe sei prothom kono bangla community peye khub khusi hoyechilum....tarpor dekhlum eta sompurno onno dhoroner ekta community....jekhane sobai k vison nijer mone hoy....somosto sukh dukhher kotha sobai sobar sathe share korte pare....vison anondo holo....banglay kotha bolar khide mitlo....koto notun notun bondhu holo....ek kothay orkut k jeno notun bhabe khuje pelum....

er por theke orkut e regular asa jaoa cholte laglo...doinondin jiboner sathe BB mile mishe eka kar hoye gelo....

sei chhotto BB aaj ek bochore paa rakhte chollo...amader sobar adorer BB k janai onek onek bhalobasa o subho kamona....WISH U A VERRY VERRY HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND ALL THE BEST

Arpita-r Phire Dekha

ami ei community join kori moumita r pathano request a...amar community te tar age school, college r hiten community chara kono community chilo na.. ami join o kortam na... mou bollo dekh community ta bhaloi hobe.. join kor na.. tokhon join kore feli... dekhte dekhte 1 year hote chollo... sei din ta chilo 6/6/2007.. aj tai thanks janai shraddha di k amon akta community toiri korar jonno, r mou k jor diye community join koranor jonno....

akhan theke onek bandhu pelam... tobe amar akhono karor sathe dekha hoyar sujog hoini, tobe shraddha di, jhum di, anupa di, suparna di, gargi, susmita di.. ader jeno mone hoi kotodiner chena.... asakori khub taratari sobar sathe dekha hobe....

ei community thekei pelam suparna di, jar kache photoshop er kichuta holeo sikhechi, mane ami jototuku jani suparna dir thekei sekha.... last ak bocchor akta routine hoye geche bor office theke firle BB te ki hoyeche tar golpo kora(jodio sunte chai na.. tao ami boli ;))

last ak bocchore onek sukhe katiyechi ei BB te, tobe sukher sathe dukkho o thake... sei din gulo o amra khub bhalobhabe overcome kore agiye gechi akhanei amader jit... amra jeno abhabei agiye jete pari...

Moumita-r Phire Dekha

Nabamita amake BB join korar request pathiyechilo. tokhon ami orkut e khub ekta notun na holeo niyomito user chilam na. BB join korechilam 06/06/2007, orthat PBB toiri hobar 1 wk er modhyei. ei community r karo sathe porichoy chilo na age theke! tobu kono ek akorsone Probashe Banglar Bodhu community ke khub bhalo lege giyechilo! amar kichu bondhu ke pathalam ekhane join korar request.... Arpita, Paramita.....orao join korlo.



Shraddha di, Subarna, Nabamita der sathe bondhutto-o hoye gelo khub taratari. tarpor ekdin amar school er senior Susmita di, Shubhasree di ke pelam, school e khub ekta chintam na oder!tarpor eke eke Jhum, Arunima, Kaberi di, Anupa di...aro anek nam jukto frnd list e.



Protham thekei Probashe Banglar Bondhu'r uddheshyo ta khub poriskar chilo! aj hoyeto anekei bhabe eto popularity....orkut er samanyo ekta community r jonopriyota dhore rakhai bujhi amader anekeri 'jibon-maron' somosya ba amader jiboner ekmatro uddheshyo hoye dNariyeche! Sobai ke boli, emon kono uddheshyo ba bidheyo niye Shraddha di BB toiri korechilo bole amar 06/06/2007-o mone hoyeni aj 28/05/08 o mone hoye na!!



BB toirir uddheshyo chilo Orkut e ashe kichu bhalo moner manush er khoj paoya. ekta ochena shohore[ tokhon probashi bodhu der jonnei comm ta chilo] ashe bondhu khuje paoyar ekta upai ekta sohoj rasta dekhiye diyechilo PBB!ei community r member songkhya barate Moumita ke kono credit dio na Shraddha di , kenona hoyeto amio nijer tagidei, bondhu khojar tagide ei community r thikana pathatam. ar aj sobai swikar kore kina jani na, amar swikar korte kono dwidha nei je eibhabei ekdin Sharmila di, Gargi, Anamika , Sudipta di emon aro anek bhalo bondhu ke peyechi. hyan sob kichur modhyei bhalo mondo dui thake. ar ekhaneo tar byetikrom nei.

Somar Phire Dekha

Pechhoner taan o agami ichha

Shraddha... bibi ra mone hoy pechhoner dike na takiye sobai samner dike egiye cholte chaichhe. ami e to phire dekhte bolle kichhue mone korte pari na je kobe ekhane eshechhi. mone hoy je se to onek din hoye gelo... kintu sothik somoy ba tarikh... nah bolte parbo na. jokhon ekhane join korlam tokhon khub kom bibi der e chintam. tarpor ja bhabi dekhe khub lekhar saadh jaglo, byas likhe phellam... tarpor aste aste bondhu barte thaklo.... amar friendlist e pray roj e notun bondhur sonkhya barte e thaklo. emon kore kobe jeno sobar sathe mishe gelam. tor mone achhe ki je toke ami prothom amar porichoy diye ekta mail korechhilam.... erpor dyakha holo sobar sathe. ekbar o sedin mone hoyni je amra prothom sobai sobai ke dekhchhi. e chharao kolkatar o bairer onek bondhur sathe e dyakha hoyechhe. tader sathe niyomito jogajog achhe, jader peyechhilam BB theke.

Hya, tui thik e bolechhis. amra jodi pujor por ekta bijoya sommiloni kori, tate hoyto amader protyeker poribarer songe protyeker poribarer ekta sokhyota gore uthbe... hoyto agami din e amader bhobisyot rao ekhane jogdaan kore BB ke akhhoto rekhe jabe.

Amreeta-r Phire Dekha

Phire Dekhlam.. :)

30th May 2007-a PBB join korar invitation peyechhilam....join korar request pathiyechhilam tarporei....31st May, 2007-a req. accepted hoy...

Sonalir Phire Dekha

I joined this community maybe some 8 months back. I could never contribute much because tomader shobar moto aami eto shundor kore bangla likhte paari na. But aami jokhoni thread er lekha gulo portam, I was full of appreciation for all of you jara eto shundor kore nijeke express korte pereche. Eventhough I was always a dormant member but this community has given me some lovely friends. Nijer desher theke jokhon keyu eto dure chole aashe tokhon we long to make new friends. They become our biggest assest jader saathe we can share our 'tok-jhal-mishti' moments gulo. Khub ichhe aache shobar saathe ekbaar dekha korar and as we say the world is round and maybe somewhere someday I should be able to meet each one of you.