Friday, May 30, 2008

August : Joint Family vs. Nuclear Family - Piu

Bishoy-ti suru korechhen : Jhum
ekta katha khub sotyi, arthik soccholota-r karone joutho poribaare thakatao ekta onyotomo karon, tachara agekaar din-e joutho poribaare sudhumatro amar chele ba amar meye ei jinishta khabe..ei kotha bhebe to kichu ana hoto na....tai sekhane bacchake khub dami kichu je baba-ma ene diten ta noy..sekhane ja hoto sobtai group-e hoto...tachara arekta byaparo chilo jano, boro dada ba didi-r jama-kapor, khelna, dolna sei barir choto choto chele-meyera byabohar korto jano..ta niye kintu mayeder moneo konorokom complex kaaj korto na je amar bacchatake purono jama-ta porte dilo..jotodin jama-ta bhalo ache aar barite choto chele-meye ache..tara sobai notuner sathei soman anondei sei purono jama ba khelna peyei khushi hoto.


kintu chitro-ta aajkaal-kar dine bodle gyache ekkebare...ajkaal chele-meyeder thekeo tader mayerai beshi socheton, kauke khub close cousins-der modhyeo ei offer-ta dite bhadho badho laage, pache kichu mind kore bose.....ami nijei amar jathtuto, pistuto, mamato didider jama chotobelay porechi, amartao poreche onyo cousins-ra kintu seto bohu bochor agekaar byapar.........

chotobelay bordhomaane ami joutho poribaar-e onekta somoyi katiyechi..porobortikaal-e baba-ma dujonei chakri-sutre kolkatay chole ashte badhyo hon...chotobelar darun kichu smrtiti ami tomader satheo share korte chai......dupur belay amar thamma ekta boro kasar thalay bhaat makhten..aar amra bhai-bonera taar charpashe gol hoye bostam, thamma-r haate bhaat makhar swad-tai alada chilo...thamma sokoler mukhe ek grash kore bhore dito....ohhh..ki khushi sob....aar chutir diner dupurbelay sobai gol hoye boshto paner bata niye.....amader barite sobai abar tash khelte khub bhalobashe...kichkkhon golpo hasi hober porei tasher adda boshto, ashe pasher bari thekeo kichu jethima-kakimara ashten..sobai mile darun adda hoto.....ei chobi aajkaal aar dekha jayna..tobe etao thik aajkaal somoy sobari kom, aaj chutir dineo bacchar coaching, baba-mayeder outing thake..

tobe ghotonachokre ami biyer por abar joutho poribaar-e eshe pori..sekhane amar barite 11jon loke amra eksathe thaktam..amar sosur moshaira 6 bhai, taar modhye 3 bhai, mane amar 2kaka-sosur, 2 kaki-sasuri aar 2 deor, sathe birashi bochorer didi sasuri..eto lok amra eksathe thaktam..biswas koro eto anonder bari aar ajker dineo eto milmish dekha jayna..ami sei barir prothom bou hoye jai 2001 saal-e, amar ekta sohojato khomota ache..ami bhishon loker sathe sohojei mishte pari, pran khule haste pari, tai oneke amay bhoy dekhaleo je ami sobar sathe adjust korte parbo kina..ami kichuta confident-i chilam je...oboshoi parbo...aar jano pereochi...sobar je eki bhabe mon jogate perechi ta bolle bariye bola hobe ..karon eki sonsar-e keu protyeker priyo hote parena..sonsar-e sobaike khushi kora jayna..tobe sobar sathe thakar je ki moja ta ami jani, aar get together holei baki 3 kaka-sosurerao eshe jog dan..sob miliye 21 jon member..bairer lok-ke aar dorkari hoyna.....tobe eta ekdom sotyi kotha.....kichu chapa hingshe/maan obhimaan egulo kintu joutho poribaar-eo thake..amader ei poribareo ache..kintu seta kokhonoi ei porjaye jaini je alada bhabe keu bari chere beriye jabe...e prosonge ekta choto ghotona boli..amar didi sasuri-r 82 bochor boyosh hoyechilo, uni osustho howay onake Ruby hsptl-e admit kora hoy..2 mash bhorti chilen..taar por marao jaan..kintu onar jonyo je porimaan taka khorcha hoyeche(pray 4 lakh) aar je porimaan jotno uni peyechen poribaar-er protyeker kach theke(including ami..naat-bou)tate Dr. porjonto obaak hoye bolechilen amar sosur moshai-ke deke je "poysa hoyto onekeri ache, kintu ajker dine ei boyoshi bridhar jonyo eto-ta korte khub kom manush kei dekha jay" karon onekei dhore nay, ja boyosh taar jonyo aar eto kore ki labh... othocho mojar byaparta holo..ami ebong amar bor dujonei amra ekmatro sontaan.

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