Janina ei bishoye age alochona hoyeche ki na BB te.. karon ami ekhane relatively notun... ajker somaje emni e amra protiniyoto nana rokomer nirapotta hinotay bhugchi.. chhele meye nirbisheshe.. kintu taar oporeo amader meyeder nana rokomer sexual harassment er sommukhin hote hoi...
Poth cholti stranger..dokandar..hotel er beyara..barir chakor..school ba tution er sir.. para r dada ba protibeshir chele..office er collegue..boss..boy friend, swami..emon ki nijer dada ba baba..kaar modhye j kkhon sei poshu jege othe jaar shikaar hote paare 0-90 je kono boyeser meye ba mohila(aj kal to 3/4 maser sishu theke 80urdho mohila kaukei baad deoa hoyna!!).. roj e newspaper e erokom nana ghotona chapa hote thake... abar erokom onek sotti chapar okhore prokash paoar soubhagyo(na durbhagyo seta debatable) paay na! shuru ta ami e korchi.. ekta sona ghotona share kore.. sona bole golpo bhebo na.. jaar opor diye ghoteche ami nije taar sathe kotha bolechi.. tar nijer mukhe sob sunechi.. tai nichok sona golpo kotha noi...
Ami tokhon calcutta university theke sociology te MA korchi. Part 2te amader ekta field report korte hoy.. sebar amra thik korechilam "liluah home" er inmates der opor report toiri korbo. interest besi amar chilo tai dayiotto o sob amar ghare chilo.. jaihok prochur kathkhor puriye permission jogar kore nirdisto din e home e poucholam. ami jantam amader interview schedule, questionaire sob bhalomoto scrutiny kora hobe, tai sei moto preperation niye gechilam..super er songe kotha bole jokhon raji koralam. amader ekti room deoa holo..ebong home authority beche beche meye pathate laglen.. amar kache prothom j meyeti elo bochor 10-12 boyes hobe-se boba... kichutei communicate korte parchina.. tokhon home er counsellor bhodro mohilar kach theke help nilam.. jante parlam.. meyeti nijer bidhoba ma r mama-mami'r sathe bardhaman er kache kono gram e thakto.. mama bardhaman e ekti barite taake thaka khaoar kaj e dite niye jachilo.. bardhaman station e se somehow hariye jaay.. taar por exactly taar sathe ki hoy seta khanikta rohosyo..clinicl test e rape dhora poreni kintu mollest kora hoyechilo tar proman paoa geche..ghotona jaai ghote thakuk taar impact etotaai besi chilo sei sishu moner opor j meyeti tar kotha bolar shokti haray...
Ei holo amader somaj.. jekhane ekti 10/12 bochorer meye o rehai paay na... amader oi project er interview session j kodin cholechilo.. sei koidin raate sute partam na... chokh bondho korlei chokher samne meyegulir nishpap mukh bheshe uthto r oder kator shor sunte partam.. mone hoto o'r opor diye jeta ghoteche seta jeno amar oporeo ghotche..
ei home gulor condition motei bhalo na.. amra jokhon jai.. ami khub jor diyechilam kitchen dekhar jonno dekhte deoa hoyni... inmates der k tala bondho kore atke rakha hoi... aro ache... manosik bhabe sustho r osustho sob rokom inmates der e kokhono eksatei rekhe deoa hoy... r tachara male staff der pasobokotar shiakar hoy era akchhar..
amader schedule e ekta question chilo j ekhane tomar "ke ke bondhu ache.. bondhu der songe ki ki koro.. " khub e nirbhejal prosno, amar bissas chilo erokom nirbhejal prosner madhyomei amra onek sotti (jeta lokano sokoler kach theke) jante parbo.. to lokhho korhilam j sobar respondent rai ei prosno gulo eriye jachhilo.. dudin erokom ghotona ghotay amar kemon sondeho hoy.. tokhon oder jini counselling koren sei bhodro mohila k jigesh korlam.. r jeta jante parlam seta sune obaak hoye gelam..
ora bondhu kora bolte homo sexuality k bojhe.. tai kauke bondhu bollei se bole ami bondhu korina.. ba o' abar bondhu noi! asole se mean korte chay j se homosexual noy.. ei home gulo te onek somoy e purono (ebong homosexual) inmates der dwarao ekhankar niriho inmates ra sexual abuse er shikaar hoy...
tobe liluah home er ba ei dhoroner home gulo somporke boli.. j okhane j kichu e bhalo hoina taao na... okhane meyeder nana rokomer training o deoa hoy... amra home gulo k dosh dichhi kintu amra somajer socheton nagorik hisebe koto ta SOCHETONOTA dekhai bolte paro?? amra pari ei meyedr amader majhe somajer mul srote firiye ante???? oi home tobu to ora beche achhe... nijeder jogote...
aar ekti meyer kotha boli tomader tahole amar boktobyo ta bujhte subidhe hobe...
ei meyeti k ami jokhon interview korte nei tokhon home oder jini counsellor tini amar o'r puro case history diyechilen.. atke uthechilam sune... meye ti ke jokhon home e ana hoi se chilo manosik bharsamyo hin.. hospital theke ase se.. home e suru suru te se m'ens" er somoy sara gaye menstrual blood mekhe nito... atke uthle??? puro ta sono tahole.. suru theke boli... meyeti bonga line er kono gram e thakto.. tar ma..hain tar nijer ma r tar jamai babu mile taake beche diyechilo delhi te ekti "brothel e" meyetir boyes tokhon 14yrs.. sekhane se eto kanna kati korto j taake samlate na pere r khanikta birokto hoye ebong khanikta doya korei sei brothel er ek masi e take kolkata'r train e tule dey... howrah station e poucheche rate se to bhebe kulkinara pache na kothay jaabe... station theke beriyechilo.. sekhane ekdol cheler haate gang raped hoy bivotsyo bhabe... porer din sokale kono ek bhodrolok doya (ajker juge manobikota ta doya e hoye dariyeche..)kore taake hospitale pouche dey....
meyetir psycho analysis kore dekha gechilo j rape e r oi rokom borborochito otyachar e jehetu taar prochur blood loss hoyechilo tai se even menstrual blood o sorir theke berote dite chaito na.. gaye mekhe bose thakto menstrual blood..
othocho sei meye ti k ami jokhon interview korechi.. se dibyi sochhonde kotha boleche amar songe... nijer poribaarer proti khobh janiyeche.. koto golpo koreche... eta sombhob hoyeche oi home er kichu subho budhhi somponno staff er jotno r sahochorjei... tai sob tai kharap seta bhaba thik na..
ulte nije bhebe jodi dekhi.. amrai hoyto oke ei somaje sadharoner modhye thakle more jete badhyo kortam... o'r nijer ma e ki koreche bolo?? jano o home er super kei ma bole tai.. nijer ma'r kache jeta paini seta okhane peyeche too... kajei bhabte hobe amader... amra koto ta ki korchi.. khali kheye pore r nijer jonne nijer poribar er jonne beche thaka e ki beche thaka?????? tahole manush (maan+"hush") hoye labh ki holo bolo to?
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